Can't tell you how many times I've nearly had to carry my kiddo out of Target. And at least once I put her in the cart (a tiny aged 12 chickie) and pushed her to the car. WTF?!! Sooo true. Don't get me started on IKEA. Glad you put out this post! Next post: 10 insanely good (but true) things that've come from having Diabetes. Can you do it? Are there 10?
Thank you, Sharon C, for really giving me something to think about. After all, if the tagline of my blog is “life with diabetes isn’t all bad” I guess I’d better be prepared to back that up. But are there 10? That many might be tough, but I’m certainly not one to back down from a challenge. So here we go!
- It’s taught me not to back down from a challenge. What? I just said that in my intro? Well, I suppose it bears repeating. Yes, diabetes can be really hard sometimes. But giving up isn’t an option. So we rise to the challenge time and again and learn to never back down. And that can carry over to other parts of our lives as well.
- Sometimes candy is medicine. Low blood sugars generally are no fun. But the bright side is that sometimes they give me an excuse to indulge in a yummy treat. Jelly beans at Easter time. Candy corn during Halloween. Cotton candy at a fair. I have to, my blood sugar is low. (Also it can give me an excuse not to share my treats!!)
- Playing the D -Card / Sympathy. Okay, I don’t do this a lot. And it really isn’t anything to be proud of. But every so often, I play the Diabetes Card. I’ve been known to exaggerate low symptoms so my husband will do the dishes while I lay on the couch. Hey, if I’m stuck with this chronic illness, I might as well reap a few benefits every once and a while. (But please don’t tell Pete!!)
- That moment when I think my sugar is sky high, and I check it and I’m right in range. This one is really hard to explain if you don’t have diabetes. But if you do, maybe you know what I mean. The feeling you get when you think your meter will throw you an icky high number, and instead it throws you a really great one? It is wonderful!
- Diabetes has helped me find a voice. I was the shy girl in school who never raised my hand to answer questions. I had a really hard time making friends. I still often feel like that shy girl, but diabetes has helped me break out of my shell quite a bit. I blog about the details of my diabetes life. I speak up at diabetes conferences. I go to D.C. every year to meet with our Representatives to lobby for government funding of diabetes research. Not bad for a shy girl!
- Nailing the bolus for Chinese food. Or Mexican food. Or any food that is tricky to bolus for. When I indulge and my bolus works out perfectly, it’s a reason to celebrate!
- Diabetes makes me strong. You know those 10 Insane Things? Dealing with them gives me a strength I never would have found otherwise.
- Getting 100 on my meter. Did you know that when you test your blood sugar and the number is a perfect 100, somebody has to give you $1.00? It’s true, and you’d better believe I’ve collected $1 from my husband for each and every 100. (Last night when I checked before bed, the meter flashed a 101. Damn, so close but yet so far. Oh, but we’re focusing on the good today . . . )
- Diabetes has taught me to be prepared and organized. Am I OCD because it’s in my nature? Or is it because I need to have my shit together if I want to live? After 35+ years with diabetes, I guess I’ll never know. But I’ve always got stuff in my purse to treat lows. I make notes on my calendar to remind me to refill prescriptions and change my sites. I have spare rolls of test strips in my purse, in my meter case, in my dresser drawer and in a living room drawer. I have backup syringes and long acting insulin and my pump settings have been uploaded to Carelink. Well prepared and organized? I am, because my life could literally depend on it. (And this OCDedness spills over to life beyond diabetes too, and that generally helps my life run more smoothly.)
- The Diabetes Online Community!! By far the very best thing about having diabetes is the friendships I have made because of it. I’ve made some of the best friends of my life after finding the DOC and I don’t know what I’d do without the understanding and support I’ve found. I know someone has always got my back, and I’ve got their backs too. Most of my DOC friendships have carried over into real life, and have helped me make a bunch of fantastic local diabetes friends as well. So without a doubt, the friendships I have forged through our shared condition is the very most Insanely Good (and True) Thing About Diabetes!!